...I wonder if it might be better to have detection as an optional thing and let the parents decide whether to make use of it....
You mean like Furryism?
(also am I the only one put off by the mainly female cast? I'm actually the kind of person who kinda gets put off when a race is mainly (if not entirely) in one gender, because unless something like immortality is mentioned I actually get lost on how the race creates children. (very minor point, I know) Perhaps I'm a biologist at heart but it doesn't seem right that a mammal can reproduce asexually, and the idea of "magically creating replacements" just doesn't work with me)
also am I the only one put off by the mainly female cast?
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