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Offline VANGUARD

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I am getting married!
« on: July 10, 2014, 04:58:53 PM »
Hello guys and gals, how is it going? I have been quite busy, and not always able to get on here. But I wish to get on here to at least tell you some good news. The girl I am with (BlueDolphin) is going to be my wife on August 23rd. I am going to drive over there to Montana, where her parents has arranged the wedding.
Yes, I am getting married to such a wonderful and beautiful young lady :)
There are two pictures, same pictures, in our profiles.

August 23rd!

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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #1 on: July 11, 2014, 06:13:11 AM »
Congratulations, and the best of luck to you both.
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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #2 on: July 11, 2014, 06:31:08 AM »
That's awesome!
And August 23rd too! :D  Congratulations!
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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #3 on: July 11, 2014, 08:14:00 AM »
Congratulations, guys! :D :D  That's excellent!

Here's a bit of advice: Don't pay too much attention to all the advice you'll be getting from friends and family (trust me, it's coming).  ;)

And don't stress too much about the wedding event, any quirks will only serve to be memories to laugh at later on.   [See what I mean about advice? Hehe...]

...Oh, and make sure to post some wedding pictures back here at some point!

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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #4 on: July 11, 2014, 01:16:38 PM »
Those are some really great news Vanguard!!

I saw the pictures on your profile and you sure look like a cute couple, I'm pretty sure both of you will be very happy. :)
My best wishes are with you, and I hope you to have the best marriage ever, enjoy it dude!

And as Foil said, I would also like to see your wedding pics when available.  :)
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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #5 on: July 12, 2014, 08:05:35 AM »
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!

I second what Foil said... And include some life-long advice.  :)

Always keep her as your very, very best friend (if she isn't already) and whenever you (or her) have a difficulty/challenge/problem/dislike, always, Always, ALWAYS do everything you can to deal with it together, NEVER apart.

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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #6 on: July 12, 2014, 04:48:01 PM »
Thanks all! I will do my best to always keep her happy, and love her, and never to be apart.

I am already getting the fun talks from some family members, and you know how guys always give you a hard time, etc..
It's part of life :)
It's all worth it, being with her. I never felt this way with anyone; to feel such content. :) wait, there we go >   ;D  very happy!

I can certainly upload wedding pictures for you all :)


Thank you again all!!

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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #7 on: July 14, 2014, 11:03:59 AM »
Always keep her as your very, very best friend (if she isn't already) and whenever you (or her) have a difficulty/challenge/problem/dislike, always, Always, ALWAYS do everything you can to deal with it together, NEVER apart.

A hearty second to this! :D

Trouble and challenges will come (in fact, they came early for my wife and I - our toughest year was our first), but it's much better when you can face them together.

Something that helped us focus on working together instead of against each other, was a course we took before we got married.  It helped us get a perspective on some of our personality differences before they grew into irritations; things that you find 'cute' can become 'annoying' down the road.  But most importantly, it gave us a chance to make it clear to each other that even when we disagreed, our commitment to each other would never be in jeopardy.  At one point, we actually took the time to tell each other, "I will never leave you, I will never divorce you, no matter what."  That little bit of assurance helps immensely, because we know that no matter how bad the fight gets, we'll still be together at the end of the day.  :)



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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #8 on: July 14, 2014, 05:20:20 PM »
I agree. I know at first, things can be cute, but annoying later. I'd hate to go down that road and annoy her. I told her, be honest. Be open. Don't bottle up things, and think it will just pass.

We have said several times, love you always, never leave, no divorce.

It's understanding marriage is never perfect, we will fight at times, have differences, will do things that may annoy the other, and not intend to either.

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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #9 on: July 14, 2014, 06:24:37 PM »
Hello everyone!!! I can't even tell you how excited I am to marry Vanguard; I am looking forward to that day!!!  ;D Thanks for all the warm wishes and all the good advice. We will definitely put some wedding pictures on here  :)

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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #10 on: July 16, 2014, 10:16:06 AM »
Dangit, where's the "Like" button in here?  ;)

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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #11 on: July 16, 2014, 07:14:01 PM »
I appreciate what everyone has said. This has been very hard, meeting so rare, talking on phone, knowing each other so well like we're already married, but so far away.
I can't wait for us to be face to face again

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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #12 on: July 18, 2014, 06:54:43 AM »
Congratulations!
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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #13 on: July 18, 2014, 04:51:15 PM »
thanks! :)

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Re: I am getting married!
« Reply #14 on: October 19, 2014, 09:44:59 AM »
Way late, but congratulations Vanguard! It's so nice to see you happy again!

 

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